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It's a known fact that guys don't go out with girls who aren't skinny, gorgeous, and flawless which is really unfair because i happen to be none of the above. Basically, I NEEEED a boyfriend, like its beyond just wanting to be with somebody it's a need to have that special somebody. Sure, there's friends and whatnot and they're important too (don't get me wrong) but sometimes you want somebody that can be more than just a friend to you. It's frustrating because some girls can get a boyfriend in a split second without even having to blink. people like me on the other hand have to sit back and watch these people and envy them while they work their charm. So what can I do to be more like them? To be glamorous and amazing so that guys will want me as much as they want those other girls? PLEASE HELP. (link)
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i know how you feel but not everybody is perfect. nobody at all in this world is flawless, either. being pretty doesnt depend on being skinny... okay maybe gorgeous but thats an opinion. someone may like you but you just have to wait.. and like be yourself and try not to envy these people. have fun with your friends.. not everyone has boyfriends/girlfriends and ofcourse alot of us want to have them now. but you'll get one eventually... i mean, dont give yourself in too easily and settle for an average guy just so you can have a boyfriend. get the guy you really like and stuff, so you wont regret it. how do these girls get guys so quick? probably confidence, among other things. have confidence in yourself, like maybe exercise if you wanna lose weight (but being anorexic/bulemic isnt good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) by doing sport(s) you like, or just run outside alot of you dont really like any sports. or like go shopping, and put a little more effort in your appearance, and people will notice. dont dress like a slut though.. but i really dont know what your sense of style is.. just get what you think looks good, not what others think is good. and i promise that soon someone will love you for being yourself, and they'll find you prettier than all the other girls you seem to envy.
There are times when i want a boyfriend too.. like when you hear love songs, valentines day, and etc when you want someone to love who loves you back. sure theres friends.. but its like what you said. but like just be optimistic, there are plenty of guys out there that would probably go out with ya eventually.. hahah and be friendly, confident, and flirt with these guyss!
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