Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
Age: 16
Member Since: February 18, 2007
Answers: 53
Last Update: May 16, 2007
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Alright, so i have two best friends. They went to a party the other night. I was walking with one of them home and she told me what she was doing and i was shocked. She said that he went out drinking at the party with my other friend, and they were making out with guys and whatever. I know it may not be a shock to you, but they would NEVER do that.. and when she told me i was devestated...although i could'nt tell her, i was dropping hints, but that doesn't help much... so now i have no idea what to do, i figured that they would never do something like that and now, im by myself... the only person who has probably never gotten drunk in my entire grade....but thats not the problem, the problem is i dont think i will be able to forgive them... i dont care if you think its what all teenagers do, its not because im living proof that not all teenagers drink and smoke, so dont give me that. I just want to know how to cope with it. (link)
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Ok I have a friend that this happened to. I didn't go to the party but I heard she was really wasted and she hooked up with three different guys. I was shocked/surprised because this was a quiet girl. But from what I've learned, you can't hold it against them. You have to accept them and their decisions, even if you don't agree with that they do. If it poses as a growing problem and you think they are going to endanger themselves, then you should approach them about it. Also, about the drinking thing... I have never been drunk and I know a bunch of people who haven't in my grade and I am a sophmore. Don't feel pressured that you have to drink because your best friends decided to. That's the last thing you should do, drink/smoke to fit in. I don't know if I helped..
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