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hey. yeah. i keep it real, and i'll try to help out annyway with annythin i can. im Em, and im a pretty smart chick. im a preddy good person, you know the type you would let babysit ur kids. dont take me for granted. i k how to rock it and keep it kool. w/o all the drugs and tequila. go ahead, ask me. ill anser. cuz u k im good lik that ;)

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i dont like my boyfriend. hes sweet and really nice, but i dont love him.

i dont know if i can break up with him though because first of all he really loves me, and second of all he is my best friends cousin and they are really close.

i dont want to break his heart and i dont want to hurt my best friend. to make it all even worse is that all his relatives know about us and support our relationship. =/


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how can i break up with him without hurting anyone and without losing my friendship with my friend?

a nice way to break up with him would be to say that you care about him so much and that youll always be there for him but you cant be with him annymore because time has changed things to the point where you like him only as a friend. if you want to take a less honest approch, you could tell him that you dont want a relationship right now or that you are dealing with a lot of pressure lately and you dont feel like you can deal with having a boyfriend. if you do the deed nicly, your friend shouldnt be upset or feel like she has to choose.
hope i helped
luv emi ;)

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(Rating: 5) i already broke up with him and that is exactly what i said. i told him both which were entirely true. he was very sad, but evrything turnd out fine with my friend. thanks for the advice!
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