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my names kayla, i am 15, i`m turning 16 this week, on the 22nd. i am pretty young, but i`ve been through a lot more than most girls my age have so i find it easy to give advice. i do my best to answer every question. and if i offend you, or give you an answer you aren't happy with, feel free to be totally straight forward & give me some feedback. :) hope i can help you!
-kayla

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ok well this really isnt about sex but i didnt know what it was really classified as..

anyway well on Valentines day a guy and i were talking and walking around town in the dark. Well we stopped in the park and were sitting on the stage, he asked me if i'd flash him. I told him no a million times but then he was like ok well i will kiss you if you do it. Well it was like my first kiss and i really wanted it soo well i agreed, We kissed and after i was thinking about it and said i dont know if i can do this soo he stuck his hand down my shirt and pretty much took my boob out and looked at it ((awkward (SP?)moment))then he put it back and then we got up and well we were just like glaring at each other in the eyes and well he kinda came at me real fast and kissed madeout with me.
He told his best friend about it and well now im scared the whole school will find out and i will be called a slut..
do you think that makes me a slut or a whore or anything like that.
I regret it soo much!
he also told me that he cared about me and was thinkging about going out with me..and would tell me the next day but he didnt and now he wants me to do even more and i really dont wanna do it
what should i do.?
and does what i did make me a slut?

he sounds like a real asshole. excuse my language. i can tell right off the bat that he's the type of guy that only wants one thing. and i`m pretty sure you know what that is. he just wants to get in your pants. if he cared about you, he wouldn't have pressured you to flash him. don't ever let a guy get the best of you. if you don`t want to do something, be assertive about it. he has no right to make you do anything you don`t want to do. you have to make that clear to him.
-kayla

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