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My mom is like addicted to alcohol. Every weekend, when she is off work, she has like a 12-pack of beer. Some times less; some times more. Even when she is working, on occasion she'll sneak in a few beers before work or after. And she never finds the time to spend time with the family. She makes promises she'll skip a weekend, or a day at least, to do something "as a family" but she ends up getting drunk when she gets home from work on Friday. She breaks my heart so much when she makes promises, then breaks them. I do know alcoholism is [like] a disease that's hard to cure, but is there anything I can do to help her??

She knows the long-term side effects, like liver disease and other problems. She knows she has a problem, but she is always denying it. And there are times when she does gets drunk she gets violent. I CAN'T turn her in or anything, because then my dad would kill me. But just personally, what can I do to help her?

Thanks

Hey,
In this situation, I think the best thing to do is confront her when she's sober. Tell her that her drinking is really upsetting to you and that if she gets caught, she could get into seriously trouble as she can get physical while drunk. Don't hold back when you're telling her. Maybe you'll get the message across to her.

Also, I would recommend talking to your dad. Ask him to talk to your mom also, and ask him to throw any alcohol you have in the house away. This could result in your mom drinking less, even if she buys the alcohol herself.

I hope things get better for your family.
Al

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