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Alright, this is the deal. I have an extremly
close group of bestfriends. We range from 13 to 14. We've all been friends since I can remember. So this year this girl we never really hangout with started hanging out with us. (We were really nice to her, she just felt left out... its hard to include her when all of us were so close). However we tried our best. So for the past couple months she hasnt been hanging out with us as much but we all still get along. So anyway getting to my point... the beginging of this week she told me she got raped. I had known for a long time she was seeing this older african american boy from another school. I'd met him once and he seemed kind of shady. She doesnt exactly have the same taste in boys as my closer friends and I do, we're into cute preppy suck ups (I know I know.) We were writing notes in LA class and I asked her why they broke up and she told me he forced himself on her and at first I didnt belive her beacuse she does a lot to get attention but I looked over and she was all teary eyed. And She's not the type of person to cry in class. What can I do ? I told her she should talk to someone but she wont. I promised her I wouldnt say anything... but this is horrible right? I just dont know. She told her sister... but her sister just thinks she wanted to, and wasnt raped. Who can I tell ? Or should I just not bother. I dont want her to get angry.
HELP.
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You need to encourage your friend to tell someone she trusts.
Her mother, a teacher, a guidance counselor, a doctor - obviously someone with an unbiased opinion on the situation (someone with bias would be her sister, obviously, from her reaction).
But it's key that /she/ is the one to tell them.
Not you.
Be there for her. Let her talk to you.
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