I know that I trust my boyfriend and I know that he would never cheat on me because he honestly loves me and it's a mutual feeling, but he's been talking to this girl that he said he met about a year ago and she lives about an hour away from where him and i live, but when he visits his dad he visits her, and she is suposidly one of his best friends, but for some reason whenever i'm hanging around with him and a girl calls h sits there and texts her or talks to her, and it bugs me alot, and i said something once and he said that he would never cheat on me, but for some reason i'm still scared that something will happen. I'm also upset because I was looking at this girls MySpace and it had some comments on there from like almost a year ago him saying on her pictures stuff like "Or you're so sexy.." and stuff like that but he posted those things before him and i started dating, but it bugs me that they are still there and i tried telling him i didn't like it and asked him to delete it but he told me that i shouldn't worry about it and it shouldn't be a problem but for some reason i still don't like it, and he talks about his ex's alot and it bugs me alot and i told him and he said that i had nothing to worry about and i shouldn't worry about, but i really love him but it bugs me so much and i try to ignore it but i can't and whenever i try to talk about it with him he gets pissy and moody and says that i'm not listening to my heart and i'm only thinking about his past.
I'm sorry that this is so long but i needed to get it out. Thank you so much.
-Beanie
Okay boo I don't know which direction you should go in leaving or staying because young men will be young men. But, first of all you never said but do you know for absolute sure that the girl knows about you and that you are his woman you say he writes on her myspce page so he must have one too if you are on his and it is self-evident that you are his main girlfriend that is a plus because even if he is snooping around on you you are his main squeeze. Men cheat all the time but they have this one girl that is in their heart and that may be you. Now you say he wrote some stuff about her being sexy it is for absolute sure that he is sexually attracted to her is they aren't having sex and if they haven't had a more serious relationship in the pass. He has feeling for her no doubt boo, he may not be acting one them for sure but that id only a maybe. But, it had crossed his mind and he is thinking about it and maybe just maybe if she came on storng enough one night he would. But, you say when a girl calls he sits there and talks to them now i don't know if you are talking about her or just other girls in general. But, if it is other girls nothing maynot be going on with them. So he can sit there and talk with them without incriminating himself. But i think he is trying to use reverse psychology on you trying to pretend he is being open while hiding so much if it is her he is just trying to seem innnocent. Why should he be getting mad at you when you inquire about something that hurts you and makes yo uncomfortable he is flipping the script so that you won't continue to ask questions and get to the bottom of it. The bottom line is i know you are trying to give him the benefit of the doubt and be an understanding girlfriend but take it from someone who has been there before. In situations like this listen to your heart because your intuition doesn't lie. If you would like to ask me any specific questions or soemthing i didn't fully answer that you'd like to know don't hesitate to ask BEY.
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Thank you, and i will ask you some more questons
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