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Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

helloo :]]
bear with me, i know everyone's
question on here is like this but eh.
well, me and my boyfriend have been
going out for about 10 months but our
relationship slowly started going
downhill about 2 months ago. we rarely
see eachother or talk to eachother. i
always have to txt him or call him. he
never calls me or txts me anymore and it
just doesnt seem like he's putting effort
into this relationship. i wanna start over
with him but he's put me through so confusion and hurt. im just wondering what your
opinion is on all of thiss. thanks :]


You never know what's going on with the part of his life that you don't know about. Maybe he's having troubles... or, even worse, maybe he's just not wanting to be in a relationship with you anymore.

Ask him about it. Maybe he won't answer you directly, like he'll say "I don't know." Then that usually means, "I don't want to hurt you but I just don't want you anymore in that way." Or maybe he won't pick up the phone or text you. Either way, you have to do the same thing to deal with it: slowly drift away. What's the point? He's not going to try to bring passion back. It's just not there anymore.

Don't call him anymore. Just lose connection with him . Maybe then he'll realize what it's like without you and come back to you with an apology. Maybe... he's taking you for granted. Then you have to show him what a loss you'd be for him. If he doesn't bother getting you to come back, I'm sorry but that's just the end of it. If this happens: There are more single guys out there! Go for them!

xoxo
-Jenny C ♥

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(Rating: 5) aww haha thanks :]]
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