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well im not sure what to do..this this guy kevin and were friends with benefit but were more like boy friend girl friend but without the title were realy close.he is very anti cheating even talking about it pisses him off.i want to be honest and tell him that when i was still dating jorden that i cheated on jorden with him but im scared of what he will do.i asked him but i said what if and he said he would probly be ashamed and might go back to old habits such as cutting,drinking.ect. what should i do i wanna be honest and tell him but i dont want to lose what we have pls help asap (link)
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then be honest....its really not a requirement thought since your not officially going out and those old bad habits are his doing and he cant blame them on anyone else....if you want to be honest then do it but if your not officially going out then you really dont owe it to him because for all you know if he hasnt asked you out he could be using you...you could start off fresh ask him out and just say nothing about it..to him..but im sure hes no angel either so dont feel to bad and if he goes back to those things its not your fault....hes not even giving you a real relationship and you dont know how many girls hes doing the same with since technically its not cheating if their all friends with benefits...tell him if you want but hell take it how he takes it good or bad and if he goes back to those things hes voluntarily doing it no ones forcing it on them..its bad on his part to hold it over your head or use it to get what he wants..your better of ending this and finding a boyfriend learn from your mistakes
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he wants a real relation ship i scared to give him one because of my past with other people.he would do anything to make me happy.hes wonderful
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