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Lately I've been so depressed. I'm 15 yrs old and started highschool. My life is a wreck. I feel like I'm always stressed and don't feel like I wanna live anymore. Eventhough I wouldn't commit suicide. I find myself writting depressing poems and just crying sometimes for no reason. My life isn't the happies life a girl would wish for. My parents are always fighting. They're always in bad moods and take it on me and my 18 year old sister. I hate it!. Also I feel like I have no real friends. Like they really donet care about me. Also my boyfriend that I really cared about broke up with me for no reason and now he wnats another chance. Sometimes I feel like he cares other times I don't. And I don't know what to do. I feel so stressed and like no one really cares about me. My parents work all the time and never have time for me and when we do talk we always end up fighting so I can't talk to them. I have no one to talk to. I hate my life. Please help.

Well I can begin by saying that just about every teenager feels the same way you do at some point. Be thankful for the things you do have - food in your stomach, clothes on your back & a roof over your head. There are people out there who are less fortunate & would die to have their parents in their life. Also, whether you believe it or not, there are more people that care about you than you realize. Maybe it doesn't seem like it, but they do. High school is a new opportunity to meet a lot of new people. I know I didn't have too many close or real friends before then. But I met a lot of people & I know you can too. Find something you like to do, like maybe pick up a sport @ school. It's a healthy way to release stress & meet new people. If sports aren't your thing, try a club. Do something you enjoy to do to keep your mind of things at home. About your boyfriend - I can't tell you what to do. If you aren't happy in a relationship, try changing or working on things that you don't like about it. & if they can't be fixed, then maybe it's not meant to be. I know you feel like your life is a wreck, but if you have any desire to change those things that can make it better, it'll be alright in the end! You just have to be willing to make an effort & change your outlook on a few things. If you want to be happy, you can be. Keep your head up, keep smiling & if you ever need anyone to talk to, leave a message in my inbox. :) Hang in there, girl!

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(Rating: 5) hey thanks so much for taking the time to read my problem. I really appreciate your advice it was the best one I have gotten. Thankyou soo much.
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