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At school, I am always struggling to make friends. I go over and talk to people but they always walk off. I try to get their attention, like make random jokes, and give my class a laugh every-so-often. I am pretty outgoing, and I am never shy or mean around people. I love people. But at school, people treat me like I am invisible. I always have to sit by myself at lunch, and it's been so hard teachers tried to get me hooked up with new friends but of course that never lasts. On myspace I used to have like 200 friends (and yes, I knew them all), but now I am down to 80. It slowly went down through the months. I am always trying so hard to befriend people, but nobody ever thinks about walking over to me, and talking to me. I try making conversations, but like I said, they walk off and ignore me. What can I do?
And yes I asked if they are mad at me, but they said no. They always tell me that we're good friends, but later on they totally ignore me no matter how hard I try talking to them.
I hope I didn't confuse anybody or not make any sense (I'm trying to explain the situation as best I can) but please help out if you can. I would really appreciate it! Thanks so much. (link)
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edit well if their showing feelings back then obviously they do care and you do have some friends...its just that sometimes people get caught up in thheir own lives and like for people to come to them rather then coming to other pepe...when that happens you should tell them how they make you feel but if they make you feel that bad then you need new friends...or maybe you do have friends you just dont realize it. maybe you need to bond more or somethig
Your trying to hard and people can sense that kind of thing. Just dont try as much or continuously go friend hunt just take it easy alittle bit for a couple of weeks without seeking people out or anything...then people might start coming to you.The more you focus on not having friends then that what youl get no friends because your attracting it by focusing on it so much...its better to come across a few people who will be true friends the 200 people who barely acknowledge you. Just stop trying so hard and kind of give the vibe that your not worried about it stop addressing these people who ignore you if they begin to come to you after a couple of weeks then ask them if they want to do something but if they dont then theyre not your friends and might even see it as an ego burts if they notice that your striving for their attention so just let those people go. and remember that there will be plenty of oppurtunities to meet new people to befriend.
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thanks for the advice but when i do pretend to just wait for them to come to me, then they start to feel i don't care about them, and it just worsens the situation. but yeah get back to me on that if you can. thanks for your time though.
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