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I know there's nothing wrong with dating anyone of a different race, and I think I may have a crush on this amazing guy, who is of a different race.
Well me and about 2 friends are the ONLY people in the school who think biracial dating is OK.
The rest of the school thinks its disgusting.
And I know that shouldn't matter, and I mean it doesn't REALLY. But I don't want to lose all my friends, just because of a crush. I know they're not good friends or whatever if they don't accept it, but still, it hurts to lose all your friends.
I know some would be accepting of it, but I know most won't.
A subject similar to this came up in school today, where me and the two friends I mentioned, were talking about the cute guy at Burger King, lol.
I kind of bit my tongue about the guy I think I might like in the school, because people were eavesdropping.
And its not just friends, my grandma would know if I had a boyfriend (she has legal custody and I live with her) and she said she'd kill me (in a non literal sense) if I ever dated anyone who was of a different race. No exaggeration, she would make me live with my aunt down the road. My aunts nephew, is currently dating this girl named Janine, who is of a different race, and she's AMAZING. Me and my aunt are more open minded than most of the family. So me and her, and Jesse (the nephew) and Janine, went to the mall one day.
But I don't want to lose my friends / be disowned by my family, what do I do? (link)
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maybe its better that you live with your aunt whos open minded like you...its not your grandmas or your friends choice and you cant live a lie..its better to do what you feel despite what others say..if their going to hate you or disown you then so be it because believe when it comes down to your opinion on what they want to do they wont care..so go for it youd probably be better off with your aunt..honestly as for friends you can always make new and better ones who suit you..dont let anyone decide who you are..do what feels right...not everyone gets along but that doesnt mean you should compromise your beliefs and be unhappy. Those people who disaprove can get over it..if they dont like what they see then they can turn their heads in the other direction because its not wrong or hurting or effecting them..do you want other thought to dictate yours the rest of your life, take a stand.Their disrespecting you..as for schools you can switch if it gets to be bad.
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Rating: 5
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thanks so much, i'd giver you a 10 if i could
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