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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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Hey,
this is the girl who posted the "make a move already!!" question.

& here's the thing its not like we havent even kissed. We have but I dont know I'm just not into it because it is always just cute little kisses(which are nice and all)but theres no lust. As far as how far I am willing to go with him,since you asked, I'm not really sure. I mean I know I'm not looking for sex or anything like that just..to turn things up a notch,lol,you get me.
Please help, i could really use some advice

yeah i understand what you're saying now.
maybe hes just nervous.. i know that my boyfriend was. the way i kinda got him to loosen up was by teasing him a little and saying that he was prude. by doing that.. he knew that i wanted to do stuff with him and he also had like the insentive to prove me wrong. but that wouldnt work for all people. well you can do things while hes kissing you like touching him or like putting your hands up his shirt. he'll get the idea that you want to do a little more. or if he gives you just a quick kiss and then pulls away.. kiss him again. maybe hes just nervous or unsure of how far you want to go with him. i mean if you want to do more than that.. like 2nd or 3rd.. you can just like flirtingly move his hand there or something. but once you give him the idea that you want to take things to the next level then you should be fine.
and if none of that works... then just make a move. guys like agressive girls sometimes. =]
good luck xoxo

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