I have this friend named Alica, we were really good, close friends during my sophomore year (now a junior), but she has done many things behind my back. Once she randomly stopped talking, and what I found out was she was trying to get away from me! I asked why, and she said I was "not being a friend". As a fact, I did nothing to her! I am 100% sure I didn't (so don't say I might of anyway). Then we made up, and she always overreacts. If I forget to call her or text her, she'll yell at me when she sees me, asking where I was, why I didn't call, and she goes, "Why are you mad at me?!?!" When I am not!
So we got into an argument, and stopped being friends. Then we madeup 6 months later, but she got worse. She does what she used to do, plus she always lied to me. I would tell her to meet me somewhere after school THREE times, but never showed, and all of a sudden stopped talking to me again. So I got very angry, called her up, and went off on her, cussing her out, and telling her to not talk to me again. We haven't talked since, and my friends are glad I am not wasting my time with her anymore. I feel quilty for being harsh, but she has done so many horrible things to me! But did I do the right thing?
Sorry for it being so long, but thank you very much for your time.
I think you've done the right thing. Since she have done so many wrong things to you... you just have no choice but let it all out. Now you feel guilty for being harsh.. because you still care about the friendship in a way. Then she has no right to treat you the way that she had. She's a bad friend matter of fact. So you're better off without her. Maybe you can say hi when you pass by her or something. But don't be too close to her or share something personal with her since you shouldn't trust her.
anyways, don't feel bad .. its life. people comes and goes.. just make sure you keep the right ones. She's definitely the wrong one. You have other true friends .. that truly care about you.
hope I helped =].
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