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Ok. My boyfriend had his first visit to my house today. It wasn't long, but in the little time we did spend together we had our first real "big kiss." [He knows kissing me on my neck makes me "excited"] So, of coarse he did and then started making out with me, and we started to lay down. [Him kinda on top of me, but not laying down all the way.] If my mom hadn't walked in the room we probably would've done alot more. I was just wondering, is this how things get out of hand and sex starts? I'm not using this as a question to start sex. I am not ready, and I don't want to give him impressions that I am.

umm.. it might.. but if he respects you.. then next time you feel like its getting to far of if your just talking just tell him "im sorry but im not ready" he should understand and be ok w/ it but yeah just tell him that you think its moving to fast and he should understand.. u have just as much control as he does :) remember that

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