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Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

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Our class is getting ready for a spring trip to New York and today we picked the people we are rooming with. This girl I know, we'll call her Lucy, is one of the people I am rooming with. I used to be really close with her, but then we stopped talking. We starting hanging out again just this year. We signed up to room together with another one of my friends. Later, I find out that Lucy said I was annoying and she doesn't want to room with me because I'm "annoying," even though she has been acting like my friend the entire year. I think she's being very immature and two-faced. I want to confront her about this, but I don't want to get carried away and become immature myself. How can I talk to her about this rationally? Would it be reasonable to just blow her off and room with someone else and leave her all alone?

Oooh, if there's one thing I know about, it's bitches. And you're dealing with one (there was no need to mention that, sorry, since you probably knew that already). Of course you confront her! She'll be a very easy person to combat, as all two-faced people are. You have to face this girl and say, "I heard you called me annoying behind my back, and it surprised me because you were acting all sweet with me, and you're calling me annoying? Don't deny it, because it'll only show me you're a coward. Well, I'd like you to tell me your opinion in my face, and I'll return you the favor. Unles you're afraid to. In that case, just don't say anything at all." Don't go to another room. This way she'll spend the trip silently being frightened by you, as you hang with your friends.
If you don't want to be like that, just talk to her calmly about it. Tell her you heard you heard that you said bad stuff about you behind your back, and that you'd like for her to just leave you alone. But be firm about it, don't be a softie and go, "Just don't do it again, okay?" because you have to show her that you won't stand for it. Then change rooms so you won't have to deal with Lucy.

xoxo
-Jenny C ♥

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