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In my opinion, I don't think I have a bad personality. I'm not stuck up, I don't cause any drama, I'm honest, I can keep secrets, and I'm nice unless someone gives me a reason not to be. I mean, I can be "mean" sometimes with guys except I'm kidding and they know it. I'm not shy, but I'm not incredibly outgoing -- I'm just normal there. Plus, all of my friends say I'm hilarious. Most of my friends, who are girls tell, me I'm pretty and I've had some of my guy friends tell me I'm "hot". I'm not stupid, but I'm not a genius. Since pretty much everyone but me cares about this at my school...people say I'm popular (I hate that word and I don't care about "popularity" just to make that clear). The thing is, I've never had a boyfriend -- NOT ONCE. I don't get it. Every single one of my friends has at least had ONE boyfriend sometime in their life, but me. No, I don't only want one cause "everyone" has one. In your opinion, does it sound like I'm doing something wrong? Why can't I get a boyfriend? (link)
no actually it sounds like your on the right track.you shouldnt do anything to get a boyfriend thats what alot o girls dont understand and half of those girl if not all i guarantee are faking something or doing something because they feel they have to. You should stay true to yourself and the right guy for you will come around. The thing is about you and the few is that your not runing around confused. Alot of people are. alot of people arent sure of who they are and what they want so that separates you from it in a way. Its better to have a few boyfriends that are actually good ones or the right ones that click with who you really are then to have alot of boys who are stuck in the land of confusion(wheter they realize it or not) and really dont care and turn out not right for you anyways. I realize you havent had any yet but it doesnt mean you wont either..the right one just hasnt clicked or arrived or you've only been exposed to one genre of people which you will be. Its best to stay true and not do anything or change to suit others needs when it doesnt feel right to you. if your comfortable with who you are then stay that way.At least your not trapped in falseness,or a dual of inner and outer lies. The right person will come there is that old saying that your prince charming is coming he just took a wrong turn. If you really pay attention to other people and think about it you'll see what i mean.


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