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Q: Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months on tuesday. I love him so much and he loves me. Me and him argue almost everyday on the phone. We argue everyday unless we see eachother. But sometimes when we see eachother and he goes home we will talk on aim and get into an arguement. they are silly arguements and don't last very long. I always get mad at him but he has probably only gotten mad at me once or twice in our 7 months. We are so close and have gone prety far so i dont know if that imformation was improtant. But we argue almost everyday. And me and him are on the phone right now and havent spoken for a good 20 minutes because of an arguement. We will get over it soon. He probably already has and im just not the one talking. Anyways im going to ask my question... Is it normal for a young couple such as our selfs to be argueing about stupid stuff everyday?

thats pretty abnormal. you shouldnt argue. dont waste your time with someone you cant be happy with. he might not care enough for you to stand a second or two to actually be happy with you. if i were in your position i would break up, but thats just me because i cant stand fights. he might be using you if you said had "gone far." and if you still stay together and go farther just imagine having his baby. he would leave you in a second because someone who argues so much is immature and cant handle a baby.

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hi. my name is natalie, im 17 and im really good advice giver, all my friends say so. I've been through a lot so i can probably relate to you. Ask me anything, i wont judge or laugh just be honest.

I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure--which is:
Try to please everybody.

really just express yourself and dont care about what others think, its a waste of time and they're opinion is not as important as yours.

i truly hope i can help.

_natalie_