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I am 14 female my boyfriend's 15. And we have been together for 7 months on tuesday. I love him so much and he loves me. And if please dont mention how im to young to be in love blah blah blah i dont wanna hear it please. But we have done everything except for have sex. that's the only thing. He bought condoms we know how to do it. We have a safe and comfortable place. I want to do it but im getting scared. We are most likely going to do it next sunday. I am getting cold feet, but i dont wanna tell him that because im afraid he'll never do it. When im with him i want to so badly but when i am alone and can think without intruptions i get frightened. Like for example im worrying about if i get pregnant, we arent even supposed to be doing it anyways. Is it normal for me to be afraid, not just of getting pregnant but just nervous? (link)
its not abnormal to be a fraid but if its really right and you feel secure then you shouldnt be but if you are having these doubts then its not the right time and you should wait...and if your really in love then niether of you are going anywhere and youll have plenty of time to do it in the future. just because you have the desire to do it doesnt mean its the right time just about everyone has the desire because its human nature. if he really loves you then hell understand. but if you do decide to do it you have to be prepared for any consequences that might happen afterwArds.


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