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me and my group of friends with a new girl this year..now shes a part of our group. its been about 5 months since we've been friends, and now she said that she used to cut herself and sometimes gets drunk. im not like that at all. i think thats really bad. i dont want to be peer preasured. i really like her.. whaddo i do? (link)
She said she used to do that not that she still does. If she does and shes your friend then you should help her get better. your not going to get peer pressured you know who you are and who your not. usually people who do that kind of thing dont do it to be bad they do it because bad things have happened. im not condoninng it or saying thats the answer to problems but somepeople get lost.maybe shes over it if not then help her get over it. shes your friend and you care about her right? as far as the getting drunk part well if she refuses to quit then you cant change her. but just because she drinks doesnt mean you have to drink or be in that atmosphere and if she doesnt accept that your not like that or trys to force you in to anything then shes not a friend and you can make new ones.


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