Iam a girl with black hair and gray eyes. I like to go to the gym to workout because it relieves stress. I like to help people no problem whatever they ask I won't judge people I'm just a person willing to give you some advice that's all. I think its important to have a good education and a good carrer in life. I want this world to be peaceful which is one of my biggest dreams!I'm back!I apologize to you all for not being able to help you guys in need for help whatever help you ask for just write me in my inbox,I'll answer as soon as possible.
Gender: Female
Location: Brooklyn,New york
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: August 11, 2005
Answers: 813
Last Update: October 14, 2007
Visitors: 35871
Main Categories:
Friendship
School
Health
View All
|
| |
Well, as soon as I get home from my game, dad jumps on me because I changed the password to my computer so my sister wouldn't be able to get on because she was online for four hours at the library and she doesn't need to be on for more than an hour. Well, some background information, my sister ids depressed, and she cuts, and she's been like this for like three years and her medical expenses is what drove my family in the poor house basically. Any hoo, I get home and I hear it from my dad. and I tell my mom that I already got bitched out from my dad and I don't wanna hear it from me. Then I don't even know what happened....we started going at it because of my sister. Yada yada. And this fight went on for like over an hour. I said some horrible things. So after a while, I went to talk to my mom for an hour because for some reason I made her cry, and that puts a big cloud of guilt over me. So I went and talked to her and even though she said she's sorry, and I said I was sorry, and she told me that she loves me and yeah, she still seems very upset at me. Or it just might be the guilt talking. But how can I make things right with my mom again? And also, how can I control what I say cussing wise to my mom and dad?
(link)
| |
It's like that saying"be carEful,think before you speak".I could understand that you would get really upset with your sister about her causing the huge economic problem,your mom shouldn't defend her,not spoil her because it's most likely she'll be back with her old ways.Sometimes not saying anything helps when you usually know that your going to say something very unpleasant.As far as your mom maybe buy her some flowers,a card saying your sorry once again,she'll thank you,as soon as you know it things will go back to normal so don't worry about it.It's wise to remind them of their mistakes of what they did in their childhood if you know they are being unfair to you that's when you use this method.
|
|
Rating: 5
| |
thanks...that's one of the better advice I've received. Thank you.
|
|