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okay so theres this guy.. and i like him. i talk to him bacically every day, but sometimes we have awkward silences. i dont like them.
like i cant talk to a guy. you know? its really hard. like ill be talking to this guy and it will go like this
me-hey
him-hey
---awkward silence
him-did you do your math homework(okay he asks this question like every day, but its about different subjects)
me-oh crap! (i get out my book)
(i do my homework)
--awkward silence
me-did you win your game last night?
him-no
me-who'd you play
him-saint paper of pens(fake name..duh :])
me-aww..whens your next game?
him-next friday
--awkward silence
okay so thats how it goes. i dont think he likes me that much, but i really want him to..yeahh..heres how another conversation went::
[[okay im telling a really long story..and i just ended it]]
me-hhaha
him-haha i was counting the times you said "and i was like" and it was 52 times!
--awkward silence
so yeah thats my story
how do you talk to a guy?
hellppp meeee :] (link)
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hah just use fill ins
this is your convo revised my way (im just guessing what the guy would say) the " ( ) " is all the possiblities EDIT- its another alternative to the conversation,hah
me-hey !! --act ubeat,smile!
him-hey
---awkward silence
^ aviod them! instead say
me-whats goin on? (or hows life?)
him- nuthin really, (good,you?) (bad)
me-yeah, same here,kinda bored (mines ok)(why?)
akward silence
^aviodd.
him-did you do your math homework(okay he asks this question like every day, but its about different subjects) < that means he wants to talk to you still!
me-oh crap! (i get out my book)
(i do my homework)
--awkward silence
instead of the silence
me-do you get this? (or if you get it, did you finish yours?)
him- yeah (no hah)
me-did you win your game last night?
him-no
me-who'd you play
him-saint paper of pens(fake name..duh :])
me-aww..whens your next game?
him-next friday
--awkward silence
^ nope :] say
me- oh i want to go to one,whens the next home game?
him- blahblahlbah (lol its _____ ) (idk)
me- i'll deffinatly be there :] are you guys good? or " you should find out,cause i've never been to one of your games beforr"
him- yeah your should go.
me- well i g2g i'll talk to you later,bye!
its always good for you to end it at first,and also start small. then when you open up more and share things,it'll get better
are you kidding?! i think he likes you at least as a potential friend that could later be something more! hes having as much as a hard time as you are starting comvos.
[[okay im telling a really long story..and i just ended it]]
me-hhaha
him-haha i was counting the times you said "and i was like" and it was 52 times!
--awkward silence
^ instead..
me- ahhh sorryy lol its a habit...i should stop. did you even pay attension to the story?
him- no sorryy... (yeah i did)
me- ok,i'll try to say it this time with out daying "like" (what did i say?)
him- hahah (um you said ---)
me- hah well i g2g meet ___ so i'll see you around.
just act like hes another girl,but different looking,and smile,be sweet and a little bossy. :]
im sorry if i didnt help,i tried. i hope i gave you some pointers,if you need more convo. starters or something i'll try and give you more in my inbox,but remember just let it flow,no conversation can be planned hah.The reason your afraid to aproach him is because you like him as a crush,right? well think of him as a new friend :] good luck!
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great advice..kind of got confused with the parenthesis. haha thank you so much :]
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