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This is a long story, but I could use the help. First of all - when I like a guy, I like him a LOT, I never stop thinking about him.

In this case, I met this boy John from my friend Sean. A couple months ago at a football game I was talking to Sean and then John came up to talk to both of us, and I had never met him before. He was absolutely the best guy I've ever met - I swear! A simple 5 minute conversation and he was already one of my favorite people (we hardly even talked just between us though, we were all kind of joking around). I didn't like him yet though. I just thought he was really cool.
So since then it's just been every time we see each other in the halls at school we'd wave or say hi. He isn't in any of my classes and he is a year older than me. Soon after that football game though I realized that I had felt completely comfortable talking to him right away. I am usually pretty shy when it comes to new people. It was amazing how comfortable I was with him, like I'd known him forever, and the more I thought about it, the more I liked him. Now I think he's just the most adorable guy ever. I've talked to one of my good guy friends who knew him a few years ago and he can't say anything bad about John. Apparently he was one of the coolest guys he ever met also.
Recently I talked to another one of my guy friends, Brian, and he said he remembers one time around the week of that football game, he was at a swim meet with John. Brian texted his friend that he was mad at him because he almost made a move (on his girlfriend) but his friend ruined it. John read it and said "Who (my name)??", then Brian said no, and John said "She's pretty hot eh?" All according to what Brian told me. I flipped when I heard it lol.
Well, so far, it's been hi in the halls for the past 2 1/2 months or so. I don't want this to just fizzle out, but I don't want to directly tell him we need to hang out because I hardly know him and I never have the chance to talk to him since we only see each other in the halls.
Brian said he would try to talk to him soon and maybe that would help, but I just want to know if you have any suggestions as to how I could get John to notice me?

well what I would do would talk to him a little bit in the hallways. Between classes. Maybe snag his number and call him up sometime. or if not the number AIM or myspace even. But just start talking to him more often and be confident. But do not be overly talkative. Nothing is more sexy then some mystery.

EDIT MORE INFO: Well when you do get lucky and get a chance to talk to him for more then a HI, ask him how is day is going and listen to him. Ask him what kind of music or movies he likes. Just start with small simple topics. I get what you are saying about being a bad conversationalist, i am too, but i have been working on it. On myspace one day just message him and be like, "Hey what's going on? We haven't talked in awhile so I just wanted to see how everything was going." Chances are he will say something in the reply that you can keep talking about.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks... I would but I pass him cause we go different ways so I literally see him for like a second. Sometimes I get lucky though, and then I just have no clue what to say? Any ideas? He actually requested me on myspace a while ago too because we're both friends with Sean so he found it there. I'd say I'm pretty confident, but I'm a pretty bad conversationalist so I don't usually have too much to say haha. Any specific thoughts?
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