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13/f.
Ok; My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, and he used to be really nice and sweet. But, now all he talks about is sex. He usually says, "Just kidding, I love you." After all his perverted comments, but I can't tell when he is kidding or not. I really like him, possibly even love. I am just wondering, how can I tell when he is kidding or not?
Also, I have had thoughts about having sex with him alot lately. I feel so bad, but whenever I see or talk to him, I get these visions in my head of us making love. Is this bad? I've always said to myself, I am going to stay a virgin until I get married but he makes me feel as if I want to give that up.
P.s. I'd like a guys view, but girls are more than welcome to answer as well. (link)
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i never said he was just hitting puberty i said you were 15 isnt that much diffrent from 13 he still needs to mature alittle
its normal..you just hit puberty its ok if you love him but if he loved you he would respect you and not be constantly talking about sex sounds like hes a potential user. just dont let him pull you in its one thing think about something its another thing to act on it.dont do anything your not 100 percent sure of your still young and if you do be prepared for consequences such as pregnacy,him using you,him leaving you,him spreading the word about you,you being disatisfied or disapointed.he needs to grow into his hormones.and it sounds like hes using im kidding as kind of a coverup. if he used to be nice then that should tip you off that hes a little on the fake side and might be trying to get one thing just because someone says i love you doesnt mean he means it especially that young.just be careful because people can decieve you and dont think im coming from a religious point of view because im not religious. if you do which im not recommending it but if you do decide to do it and it turns out bad you can stop at anythime you are the creator of your own universe and nobody is your boss.
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Rating: 4
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Thankyou so much. But, he isn't just hitting puberty like me. He's two years older than me. But anyways, thankyou so much.
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