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ok. so today was really awkward. i was hanging ou with my boyfriend. and it was all fun. but then his mom randomly showed up and said she wanted to talk to me. so im like ok. so i go over to the car window and shes like oh whats going on? im like what do you mean? and shes like are you guys going out? and im like yes. and shes like ok he told me. im like ok. shes liek does your mom know. im like yes( but she really doesnt, well she does but i just didnt say anything to my mom) ok well anyways. she was like oh hes grounded. you shouldnt be with him. and hes grounded becuase he is failing 3 classes. and shes like did you know that? and im like no. and shes like yeah well he is. and i betcha dont wanna go out with a junior next year when you move on to be a senior. and shes like how old are you. and im like 17. and shes like oh hes 18. when he told me that he was 17. and born a month after me. but somehow he skipped a age. but i dont know if the mom knew how old he was. and she was like i dont want you guys alone. and im like ?? and shes like its just because i had him at a young age and i dont want anything bad to happen. and then my boyfriend gave his mom a look and shes like what i dont want her getting pregnant to. and im like ok then. and then her mom is like i can take you to the movies and drive you there and back. and you can come to my house when ever you want. and shes like i just dont want you alone. and shes like i bet your mom doesnt want you alone with boys. and im like actually she doesnt mind. and shes like oh. well your mom can call me whenever she wants to. im like ok. and shes like hes not supposed to hang out with people hes not mature enough but im giving him a chance to have a girlfriend. and im like ok. but im just really confused because he says hes had other girlfriends so im just thinking did something happen? becuase i was there for a half hour talking to his mom. and im like this is really awkward. and i mean he didnt give me a hug goodbye or naything in front of her. so im guessing he cant have PDA. im like ok then. but what im saying is is he a liar? i mean his mom embarassed him bad. and im just like um ok? i dont think his mom likes me much. but she kept saying how she doesnt want me to get stuck pregnant. so im like is he a virgin? well one of his exes was a slut. but i have no idea. and shes expecting me to be liek the mother of him. doing this and that. and this is the first time i ever met his mom. and im like uhh ok?
so should i break up with him? or? i sort of want to because i dont feel the same way about him as i used to. and thats the honest truth. but then i will feel bad because he might think its because of his mom. that she scared me away. and i dont want his mom like coming to me. and also i liked being single alot better. and i have no idea why but i sorta kinda still have feelings for my ex. but my ex hates me. im so confused.
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okay, well in my opinion, if you and his mom feel awkward, that will make your realtionship awkward. In my experiance, relationships never work out well if the parents don't like you. or vice versa. But, theres more than just the mom problem, you still like your ex. If you really don't feel the same about him then break up with him because the longer you wait, the more it will hurt him. If you decide to break up with him (which i think you should) then just explain that you still have feelings for your ex. that's all you need to say, good luck with this situation, ive gone through this before. i know it's tough, but the sooner you end it the better.
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thnkx. sooo much. im jsut really s cared to end it because he knows why it would be.
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