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over the weekend my best friend and i had the hugest fight we ever had, and weve been friends for 7 years now and i love her to death, but im tired of her taking advantage of me and taking me for granted. if im her BEST friend she should treat me the BEST. and she doesnt, so we made up at school today, but over the phone shes blowing me off again.. how do i get her to understand how selfish she is with out upsetting her *she upsets real easily* (link)
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OH WOW IM REALLY HURT...NOT.you dont personally know me for me to bring out the worst in you your just mad because my advice was truth ful and didnt baby you. im just being honest and if you dont like it turn your head inthe other direction....when you ask for advice you set your self up for harsh advice im not sugar coder or a yes man. but hey im talking from experience and sometimes friendships arent meant to last and dont.
shes not a friend and she obviously doesnt want to be friends. so its probably best for both of you that you separate. sometimes things arent meant to be but then again if your calling your so called friend selfish it doesnt seem like your all that good of a friend either maybe there are things about you that shed like to change as wel. or maybe youve just both changed and dont click anymore. it doesnt necessarily mean that your a bad person or that she a bad person. you say that she upsets real easily but sometimes some people bring out the worst in others. maybe she doesnt consider you her bestfriend. you say youve been friends for seven years but how close were you during that time it might seem harsh but take into consideration how close you were.were you inseprateable or joint at the hip or did you just see eachother in the same class. reevaluate yourself aswell you cant put the full blame on her. im not being mean but i doubt your perfect if you are thats extremly rare and deserve a prize.it sounds like she doesnt want to be friends ....people change and grow apart...not really a bad thing or make either person bad but it happen..and your more then likely going to have to move on. if your so much better then her )because it sounds like your putting yourself on a pedistool..sorry it just seems like your laying all the blame on her and taking no fault whatsoever) and if she so horrible then why do you want to be friends with her. two negatives dont make a positive and you obviously dont make eachother feel positive.so your probably better off. just chuck it off as a loss so you both can move on to better things.
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Rating: 3
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you "bring out the worst" in me.
Rating changed by L2 mod
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