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anyone please this is not that long and i really need help. Sometimes my parents can be complete IDIOTS. im not allowed to go skiing because My dad SAYS that im going to get hurt. I cant do an article for school on RAPE because my mom doesnt like it and now i have to stay up to research another one AND memorize it. (btw im 13/f) These stupid choices of my parents are making me depressed and i even cut myslef because of it. I cant have a boyfriend untill im 17, i cant wear a tampon yet, MY MOM DOESNT ACCEPT THAT IM GROWING UP. IVE TREID TALKING TO HER ABOUT THIS BUT SHE WILL NOT LISTEN. Seriously, My dads decision about skiing. I mean COME ON. IM GONNA GET HURT WTF. i know my parents care about me but they need to let go! They will NOT listen to me when i tell them all this. I cry all the time and i dont know what to do. Sometimes my life is perfect and sometimes i want to die. What i really want to ask you guys is what can i do now? Ive talked to them, that doesnt work. I know a note wont work and they WOUDL NOT go to a counseller or anything. I honestly feel that if i sucide myslef, they might learn something. (Also, im indian if that helps). Is anyone can help me PLEASE do so. (link)
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idiots is a harsh term..maybe over protective would be better. your parents are negative thinkers with skiing yes you could get hurt but you could get hurt walking across the street. as for rape its out there and needs to be adressed it doesnt matter if your mom likes it or not. as for a tampon i dont quite understand the harm there but i guess to them its something sexual.your only 13 but they do seem alittle extreme. cutting your self and suicide is not the answer and since you havee free will you cant really blame it on your parents thats a personal issue that your going to have to resolve with counseling if you cant stop yourself. im sure if your parents realized you were having that kind of problem then theyed get counseling for you but it doesnt really turn the tables in your favor either but it will still have to be done if you cant stop....but maybe that could open up a window to your parents issues to and result in family counseling im not saying that cutting your self or suicidal thinking is the way to go but it definetly needs to stop so maybe you could confront your parents about counseling from that angle and then when you go to a counselor you could just kind of ease the pressures of your parents into the situation. have you ever thought about talking to a school counselor about it that could get things into gear..As far as the boyfriend issue its not that unusual to wait until your seventeen to have a boyfriend because your just now hiting puberty....but everyone matures diffrently i do thinkl that your parents are to strict but still dont agree with the whole cutting your self thing or suicide solution because its just something thats going to inflict pain and really isnt going to get your point across theyll probably just think they should of been more protective but you shouldnt inflict that much pain how would you feel if someone commited suicide to teach you a lesson.anyways if you go to a school counselor without telling your parents first and tell them everything from theparents restrictions,to the cutting your wrist you suicidal thoughts and why basically everything you wrote hear will definetly get some reaction. just make sure the counselor doesnt get the idea that your being abused unless you really are physically or you could get tooken away from them....and make sure they understand that your not just some kid whos depressed because then they might just think you need medication.just tell them everything you wrote to us and you should get somekind of positive result and find some kind of compromise with your parents. as far as there approval you dont need there consent to see a school counselor.
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