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Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

i have a bigg crush on one of my good friends brothers. she knows, and she swears she doesnt mind, but i think she does. should i go for it with him, or lay off and respect the relationship i have with my friend?


thanks!



Talk to her. Don't make it awkward, like pulling her into the girl's bathroom and start privately talking about it. It'll create an uncomfortable chatting place. Pass notes to her about it or slip a letter in her locker, saying something similar to this in your own words:
"Okay, I know you said that you don't mind about my crush on your brother and I don't want to annoy you about it, but I have a feeling you do. Please be honest with me because I'm your friend and I really don't want to dump our friendship over a guy. Tell me the truth."
If it turns out she really actually doesn't, then go for it. Flirt with her brother and do whatever you want with him...
But of course, if she does, well, friends before crushes. You adore your crush, but you love your friend (or, at least, your supposed to) so respect her feelings and try to get over the guy. Move on. I know it'll be hard, even though I'm making it sound simple, but there wasn't a relationship blooming yet, so stop your emotions before your hormones get it to.

XOXO
-Jenny C ♥

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