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Q: im 21 going on 22 i got married at 20 and had a baby 8 months ago...i love my husband VERY much but i'v noticed that lately i have been looking at other girls a lot, and had a couple sexual dreams about me with another girl not anyone i know just a random girl...i am still attracted to my husband but our sex life has gone down hill i think it might just be the whole new parenting thing so i talked with my husband and he is not worried but i am a little, i mean am i a lesbian? or bi? or am i straight and just going through a phase?...please help
Your mind can play pretty crazy tricks on you. After hearing your story, I personally think... After having these dreams, you got into a mindset that scared you. You started freaking out & thinking I must be attracted to women? Or something like that? If your thoughts were souly trigered by these dreams, just remember you CAN'T control what you think while sleeping. So you have nothing to worry about. If I'm way off on this, I'm sorry. Best of luck!

im not sure if that is what happenedi started noticing other women more before the dreams but after the dreams i got a little paranoid...so it might just be in my head....i hope that is all it is
thanx for trying to help

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