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ok so i FINALLY got over this guy i liked for FOUR WHOLE YEARS..and i felt soo free and liberated, but then all of sudden his msn-name was the lyrics for OUR song and my mind directly thought "aww he likes me again!" and i started likking him again and now i cant stop thinking about him (even though I KNOW he doesnt like me) so whta do i do? do you suggest i delete him (i realllly dont want to!)

I have definitely been there. But no, i say you dont have to delete him, if anything to really put ure feelings for him or lack there of is to call him up. Not so much call him up to have a long convo...but to see how he's doing, and to see for yourself, how you feel about him once you hear him in reality. Because sometimes, especially when we like someone, they morph into someone different then the real one. Whether he likes you again or not, I think you need a change of scene. SO the trick is to call him....kind of get sort of reaquainted, and look at your other boy prospects. Maybe if you talk to the guy that you think you might like again, you can work on accepting only his freindship, and if you start talking to other gys at the same time, it will be easier. Win Win situation, you got yourself here.


Hope I helped

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