I smile,laugh,love,and live in the moment. I don't think lifes worth wasteing on a boring day. I am happy and with who I am. lifes about friends who hold on to you,the people who you love and return it. I don't believe in changing for anyone, i can say that everything happens for a reason and if its not a good ending,then its not over. I Love music, and interested in anything to do with style,makeup,and fashion. I also love heroes, south park, and family guy :]. I'm done with the fake people,i've basically dropped all who never cared. and i'm actually happy,i feel so much better ! I've been through it,the friends,family,and the whole finding yourself. And i think Marylous Coffee is bomb.I have the most amazing friends; and i'm so lucky to have those crazy bitches >:}.I'm obbsessed with Harry Potter
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I go to boarding school. At school, I'm known as the quiet girl that nobody talks to. I have friends, but not as many as I've had in the past. I really don't like this school, and don't plan on coming back next year. Since I only have a few months left, I wanted to change my reputation and "go out with a bang". What are some ways to do that, and how can I change my rep in a short amount of time so I can enjoy my last months here as much as I can? Thanks in advance. (link)
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i dont know how many times i've asked this question,but after awhile i finally got the answer. (i just realized.)
When i was quiet,i kept EVERYTHING to myself.i would think of something to say but not say it. i found people saying the same exact thing i did,and other laughing. then i thought,"i should have said it"
The first thing i kinda did was change my attitude to "i can do anything i want" yes,its ok to want. its ok to say it out loud too. I got a camera,and its a good wayto meet new people in your class. i was always semi-friends with people. but when i have my camera it just adds to the fun,you get more attension,and also if you want a picture of a semi-friend,bring them in it. but really,there is no short change. i've learned this. and im still changeing i think. anyways, Next i got a haircut and wore what i WANTED to wear. i thought "oh,only preps can wear hollister,only skaters can shop at pacsun" what the heck was i thinking? Wear anything you'd like. Add your uniqueness. And more people will complement you if you feel good in what you wear. Its hardest to change your Personality. At first, jump into conversations,its as simple as just laughing at what people say,your instanlty in it. Ask questions about the topic. One thing leads to another,and more questions. Dont sound to demanding though=p. One time,i poked my friend and then we had a pokeing fight,then it just stuck. simple things lead to more complex. Do something you would NEVER do. State your opinion. Try something new. People enjoy smiles. If you think of something random and your around your friends,just say it. :]. its going to take a long time. im still changeing i think,and im still not that outgoing,but i've made an improvment. its taken me 5 months. and now that i think or it,i ask,where did it all go? and then i remember my old self. your a new person now,say no to some things if you want. list things you like. get into interesting and different things.
i hope i helped!
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whoa that advice was so much better than anyone else's here...thank you so much
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