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Gender: Female
Location: Seattle
Occupation: Bagger of Groceries, Puller of Carts
Age: 16
Member Since: January 10, 2007
Answers: 10
Last Update: January 12, 2007
Visitors: 2279
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so me and my boyfriend keep trying to have sex. the last time we did it he was inside me but i could tell he wasn't all the way in because i kept tightening up on account of the pain (was a virgin btw). i love him and i want to do it but i just can't seem to relax enough to let him go all the way in. how do i fix this? he fingers me, im wet enough, and i know i want to do this, so it's none of those reasons. help??? (link)
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I like what ducttape said: If you are tense and nervous, you won't be able to enjoy it at all. If it doesn't gross him out, have your boyfriend try giving you cunnilingus (oral for girls).
When you're doing it don't focus on what you think should be happening, or on making sure he gets in all the way. Instead, focus on deep steady breathing. Pleasure will come, eventually. Have faith.
Good luck!
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yeah he actually like going down on girls...im just nervous about it. i dont know why, we're very open sexually. ill try focusing on something else ha
thanks
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