about

Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

THis guy and I really like each other....well at least I know that i really like him. But he told me he liked me, and we have been talkin to each other for a month and some days. He is really sweet and we talk nearly everyday. but there is one problem: I live like two counties away from him (about 45-50 minutes) and the only common ground we have is when we see each other at church every Saturday. This weekend, he told me that he doesnt know if it will really work out because of our distance. I was crushed. But we saw each other the next day, and he said that he missed me, and he think he made a mistake. Then he added that the distance was not the only thing, that he wasnt being completely honest. Im not sure what it is, and im not sure whether he still likes me (but he did say that he still has feelings for me). And now i dont know what it is. And he is busy with homework alot, so it has been two days and we still havent tlaked about it. If he cant call me, he usually would call me just to say goodnight. Now if he doenst call, he just doent call. And now I dont know what to think. I know that if it was just the distance, then we could definitely work it out. I dont know what to think. SOmebody HELP!!!!


There's three possible reasons:

I hate to say this, but there might be another girl. I'm sorry, but life's life. It happens, and you just have to get over it. You guys live with this huge distance between you two and if there came another girl for him where he lived, then he would chose her because relationships are easier when you're together. Isn't that the point of relationships? Being together? So you have to understand if he decided to move on. Maybe you have to too.

But there could be another reason. Maybe his parents don't allow him to date, or just doesn't want this guy with you, for some reason. Is your church against those kinds of things? Because if your church is, and if you're getting all cuddly with him there, you should just move on to a guy that you could have a better relationship with without all these things in your way. It'll be a lot comfortable.

And then this guy could just not be sure if he really has feelings for you or not. Just back off a little, and give him some space and time to think about it. He must have thought it was right to say, 'I love you', at the time before, but right after he was just unsure.

If you really want to know, the best thing to do is ASK HIM. Tell him to be honest with you, because you're really bothered by it. If he can't tell you, maybe it's serious and you should just leave it alone. Move onto another guy.

xoxo
-Jenny C

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(Rating: 4) thanx so much Jenny...ure right it could be another girl...but his parents love me and even invited me over, and my church isnt against that kinda stuff...and weve been movin really slow. He is not that kinda guy. But thanx alot
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