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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things.

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ok. so i've lived in my house for my whole life (litterally). and now, my mom says we're moving. at first i was upset. but now i'm ok with it. my parents are divorced and my dad is trying to stop us from moving. and if he does, we don't know what's going to happen. should i confront my dad? or just let this whole thing go?

ps. if we DO move, i'll lose ALL my 6 cats and more.

It all depends on whether or not you want to move. It doesn't sound like you do. I'm sure that you dont want to lose your cats, and the home where you've spent your whole life. But think really hard before you decide. This is a decision that could change your life.

1. If you do not want to move:
Talk to both of your parents, separately at first. Explain that you do not want to move. If you will be moving very far away, say how this will hurt you. If it's still in the same town, then emphasize how this is the house that you grew up in, and it means a lot to you. Ask your mother to just think a little harder before she uproots both of your lives. Ask your father if he will talk to your mother(but ask him to be kind about it.)

2. If you do want to move:
Confront your dad. Tell him that you don't mind moving, and ask him why he's trying to stop it. Try to reason with him, unless his reasons are valid. If that's the case, well, then you can cross that bridge when you come to it.

Hope that helps, love.

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