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My names britt. I love school for some reason its really easy. I love my friends Britt(lol) && Tiffany (who looks like my twin). I'm pretty athletic even though I don't play sports. I'm really easy to get along with;unless i hate you, then i could be a bitch. But generally I'm a nice person. I'm 13 and have two dogs who are chihuahuas: && They are my babies

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okay well im thirteen tomorrow and my boyfriend is a year older than me and yesterday my boyfriend told me that his best friend which is my best friend's boyfriend kept asking him how far me and him have gone but he wouldn't tell him. then they made a bet that my boyfriend would finger me by the 27. and last night i asked my boyfriend if i was just a f**king bet to him and he was like oh how do you know about the bet? and no your not just a bet. and we only made it because he wouldn't leave me alone. and then my boyfriend told me that it was also because he feels weird because my two best friends and their boyfriends have sex and stuff and he feels weird because we haven't and he feels left out. and then i was like well what are you trying to tell me ? and he was like well maybe we should do it because i want to because i love you. and i was like no. and he was okay with it but then he kept asking why and stuff and dont i want to know what its like and stuff like that. and i was like yeah i'm curious but i'm not ready to find out. we have only been going out for almost three months. it would be 3 january 10th. and then he was like well i love you and i want to go farther with you. and i was like " okay, i want to go farther but not all the way " and he was like "would you feel comfortable with 3rd?" and i was like yeah i guess and then i found out today that my best friends boyfriend bet my ass that he wouldn't finger me and my boyfriend bet my best friend's tit's that he would. i don't know wahat to do. i don't want to let him finger me if its all just because of a stupid fricken bet. im not a whore or a slut but i'm also not prude. a little advice please?

Don't do anything you dont want to, nor regret.

If he would break up with you after, you'd probably feel horrible. and just because he wants to, and you dont want to. dont let him.

Its not being prude and whatever.


"i want to because i love you" sounds like its more of a bet.
No ever let anyone take advantage of you by telling they want to or you have to do something to show you love them. such as "if you love me you'll let me do it" just simply say. "if you love me. you'll wait"

something like that.

hope i helped :]

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(Rating: 5) omg thank you so much. that is a really good idea to say if you love me you'll wait. haha thank you!!!
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