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my friend is like average sized not fat not skinny but right in the middle and her mom keeps tellin her dat shes gettin fat cause she don't wear a small in juniors anymore and shes startin to believe it and is thinkin of becomin anorexic jus so she can fit a small in juniors again so can you give me some advice to give her?PLEASE and THANK YOU

My friends are exactly like that. The truth is that she isnt getting fat, she's just growing. Anorexia can cause infertility(no babies), a low immune system, frail bones, and ultimatly DEATH. Tell her that she means alot to you and that if she died suddenly you wouldnt know what to do. She's important to you and she's hurting herself which is hurting you (and others around her) so tell her if she doesnt want to see you in pain to stop hurting herself because not eating (or throwing up what you eat on purpose) is dangerous and it scares and hurts friends and family.

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