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Taylor and I have been dating for almost 6
months now and things were going great. But
there are a few things he does that drive me
nuts but I put aside because I loved him.
Well, the feelings have died down, we barely
see each other, and those little things
he does bother me more and more.

What I'm trying to ask is how do I know
when to call it quits? Yes, I flirt with other
guys now but Taylor and I have broken up
before and I regretted it a day later so
we got back together. I don't want to do that
again.

How can I be sure its what I want?
And how do I go about breaking it gently?

Have you talked this over with Taylor, I mean about what these things are that bother you more and more. I mean if you have, and nothing has come of it, that's a good sign he's not willing to try to make that happen for you. As for not seeing him as much, that is something that you have to decide if it's important to you. So if you need more time, and not getting it then again it's about time to move on. You can't be sure of when to call it quits though. Look to see if these guys you are flirting with you have feelings toward. If you do, try it out. As for breaking it gently, I would just talk to him about what it is that causes you issues. If he still doesn't get it you can't change it. Hopefully he will understand and let you know if it's something he can work on or not.

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