Member Since: January 3, 2007
Answers: 6
Last Update: January 5, 2007
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Alright, well.
where to start. I've never really told nebody about this, but my best friend knows. alright, well, I met this guy online, and we became great friends, and one day he told me that he loved me. and he gave me the day, and I realized, I loved him too. Well, this guy... has to be the sweetest male alive, I love him with all my heart, we talk about everything, now, the problem is, he lives in South Carolina, and I live in california. I'm a country girl, hes a city boy. well, our diffrences dont bother us. comming in march, will be our 4 year anniversery. another problem, hes turning 20 this month, and i'm only 15. again, we dont view this as an issue.
we talk online practically 24/7, he stayed up till midnight califonria time for me last night for new years. we've sent letters back and forth, talked on the phone, we've done a ton of things. well, he wants to meet the year I graduate. well, theres two problems.
1. My Mother. she is the most over protective thing EVER. though my oldest brother had an online girlfriend in PA, and visited her for his graduation present, but they knew about his gf. buuut they dont know about me and my bf.
2. my religion. I'm mormon, and i'm not supposed to date until I'm 16 (this september) and i know for a fact my mom wouldnt approve of him. he doesnt approve of my guy friends, any of them over the age of 16, little lone 20.
though I do think i'll have some more freedom by then, I dont know if it'll work. plus, after hs, i'm planning college and a mission...and more college. by the time we can really settle down, he'd be like 32, and yes, we've planned all this out, and hes upset with that idea, but I dont know what to do!
well, I have a few questions
1. I want personal opinions, do you think we would last if we tried
2. since hes upset about him being the age he would be, should I just drop off like, going on a mission, or a few years of college? should i just go to an out of state college, and move in with him?
3. Do i keep this stuff from my parents? they once got into my e-mail and found a ton of e-mails from him, and i was practically dead meat, I blocked his sn and deleted his e-mail off my list in front of them, and they stoppped bothering me, so what he did was change e-mails and I unblocked his sn, that was 3 years ago. Do i risk chancing it now? do i wait until i'm 16 or 17 when i'm of age?
I really want to spend my entire life with him, and I know that for sure right now.
please guys, help!! (link)
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i completey disagree with the bottom 2 ppl. if the guy was just wanted to have sex with young girls then he would have been down there wanting to meet. yes it is strange that he stuck around with you for 4 years but he could think that finding a person to love is very important and needs to be handled carefully. (i didnt mean to make that sound stupid haha)
i do not think you should tell your perents until you are legal. because most likely theyll try to stop you from doing what you feel is what you want.
if you love this guy as much as you say then you should go to him when you are legal. and do what you want from there on.
i understand how you are feeling because im in the same position but slightly different.
if you have any more questions just ask
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thank you so much, i aws begining to wonder with the other answers =/ though I do love him, so i wasnt going to let their attention bug me, but thank you ^^
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