hey there world!
so i was talking to my friend tonight and she told me that i give pretty good advice and that what i told her really helped her..which sparked the idea for me to make this lovely advice column..i'm here for anyone if you need me and i'll answer whatever questions you have (even if they dont fall under my "favorite catergories" or whatever..haha)....but basically, here is a quote to sum it all up (at least in my eyes)...i really love this quote!
"I say if you feel good with what you're doing, let your freak flag fly"
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okay ive been goin out with this guy for around a week or two now and i really like him.... i told him that i hadnt snogged anyone yet and he said that was fine and that we could take it slowly now snogging isnt really that big of a deal and i really want to.... but everytime i go to my nerves get the better of me and i chicken out and i really dont no what to do i told him this and he said it was fine but i really want to. How do i get over my nerves and just go for it im more scared of doing something wrong but now its stopping me from going places with him incase i have to...its really stupid and i really like him so if anyones got any ideas please help lol
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first of all..it is completely find that you havent "snogged" anyone..and i understand your nerves getting the best of you...my advice would be to just relax when you are with him..if you're worried that you will do something wrong during the process..dont be..it is impossible to do something wrong because every kiss is different and it is easy to just go with the flow...it'll happen when it is meant to happen but just remember that he likes you just as much as you like him..and the fact that you told him is a good thing and it seems like he cares about you and he doesnt think that it is a big deal..which is perfect and so when it does happen just remember that...i know that it is easier said then done to let the nerves go..and believe me...my first kiss/snog i was terrified! (not that you are scared..but i sure was)..not gonna lie..i was like shaking from my nerves...but then i just said, screw it cause i really liked him too and it was amazing..it'l happen when you're ready....maybe it will end up being you kissing him...who knows...but it will be wonderful..just take a breathe next time you feel your nerves getting the best of you..remember he cares about you and try not to focus on anything...just be and see what happens..i'm always here for you and let me know how things go!
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Rating: 5
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fanks alot btw
aw well a betta jst give it a shot
again thx
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