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Hey guys I'm 15 and my name is Jackie. There is this guy that I simply can NOT get over. I've alould myself to get hurt. Everytime I begin to sorta get over him, he says something sweet or flirty that gets me to fall for him all over. My head knows he doesn't like me, but my heart keeps getting tricked into thinking that he likes me. so anyway. I need some tips for getting over him.
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Do you know for sure he doesn't like you? If not, then my advice would be to find that out first. As difficult as it may be, the best way is probably just to be straight-up about it. Try saying something like, "You keep saying things that come across as flirty, so I was wondering, are you interested in me as more than a friend? Or is it just my imagination?"
If you do know for sure that he doesn't like you--or if you ask and it turns out he doesn't--then as unhelpful as it may be, the only thing that can really get you over anyone is time. It may also help to stop hanging out with him for a while. I know you probably don't want to--after all, you must enjoy spending time with him or you wouldn't like him--but taking a break from someone's company really can help.
I hope that helps some. Just hang in there, things really will get easier with time. =)
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