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Hey, im not going to sit here and say ive been through everything and i dont know everything and ye im only young so some of my answers could be a bit naive.
Well im !5 im from England, Leeds (sunniest place on earth =]) I have an amazing set of friends that keep me alive and just love them!
ill try and do my best to give the best advice i can, as i said i dont know everything so they might be a bit limited but i hope it helps you.
Some thigns i have no idea about so i wont answer them kind of questions i wont give an answer that i feel doesnt asnwer the question well enough.
well thats it really
kim
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my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and i think he is getting sick of me. he is very controlling and he isnt the greatest .. i have had more than one occasion where someone has told me he has cheated on me. i believe him when he says its not true. he doesnt like that i have guy friends so i dont have any but he has tons of friends who are girls and it doesnt even phase him that it upsets me. he has lots of girls numbers including one of the girls who told me they hookedup. another girl who was trying to get with him calls alot. he says he loves me but he treats me like shit. im a good girlfriend i do everything for him i love him. but still even if he messes up i get yelled at if i confront him .. everything is my fault even if i catch him lying he gets mad if i was snooping and says i need to give him his privacy and that i have no right to check his stuff. he says i need to trust him more but how can i when he has hurt me so much in the past and how am i supposed to trust him if i catch him lying all the time. he calls me names like slut when he gets mad and he calls me crazy. and he apologizes when we stop fighting and he doesnt seem to understand its not right. ive forgiven him many many times and he just doesnt seem to take me seriously. he doesnt think i will dump him he thinks hes irraplacable (lol) but hes not. he treats me like just some chick .. im not some chick after a year and a half. he should be treating me like a princess not like a maid. please help

it doesnt sound like he values you enough
you obviously like him and care for him but that still doesnt mean he can treat you this way, you should talk to him about it and if he doent change then you know its not right and he obviously doesnt deserve you if he cant treat you right.
hope this helps even though it might feel bad to break up with him if he doesnt change but its obviously not making you very happy being with him

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(Rating: 5) thanks yeh he does make me happy though too .. when we are together hes so cute he surprised me at the mall the other day .. but it just seems like hes getting sick of me and he has anger problems .. idk what to do =\
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