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My boyfriend and I hang out three times a week. Wednesday & Friday - after school & on Sunday. He doesn`t go to my school, so those are the only times I get to see him!

Since I`m on Christmas vacation, I REALLY want to hang out with him. Because, I`m home alone, and yeah.. it`s way too boring for me to handle.

His brother came in for Christmas, and he`s staying for two weeks. He`s been here now for, four days. Tomorrow is Friday & it`s our day to hang out. I asked him if just ME & HIM could do something. (I hung out with him and his brother on Wednesday & I was COMPLETELY BORED OUT OF MY MIND! I felt so uncomfortable!) Like, I asked if we could drive to a different town & you know, just like chill. =]

Am I being way too selfish? I just don`t want to sit around all day & watch tv with his brother, it`s the worst thing ever. Is it bad that I don`t want to hang out with his 27 year old, older brother?

I`m 17 & he`s 20.

Thank you, mucho!!!!

Thats not selfish. It's called wanting to spend time with your boyfriend. I totally understand that you want to hang out with your boyfriend. But you should talk to him about it. And say something like "I know you want to hang out with your brother & I respect that, but since I barely get to hang out with you when schools going on I want to hang out with you more cause its vacation. & I feel that sitting around all day watching tv with you & your brother is just boring, & I want to get out & hang out with you" He should understand. Make up some sorta deal thing. Like you can hang out with him during the day & he can spend time with his brother at night. Or the other way around. All im trying to say is talk to him. & Your not being selfish.


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(Rating: 5) It`s EXACTLY what I wanted & needed to hear. I do need to be more open about my feelings with him, & I didn`t really think about compromising where I saw him during the day & his brother saw him at night. You helped, TONS. Thank you very much. =] ♥
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