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Have you ever had a sudden urge to do something? Why do we get them?
Like a couple days ago, I had the sudden urge to kiss my best friend (im f/he's m). Another time I wanted to jump out my window. Talk about random!
Help, I keep getting them...is there something wrong with me?
Yes, we all as human beings have had the sudden urge to do something. Once, I wanted a boyfriend because I was so desperate that I asked out a guy and he totally said no because he doesn't date ethnic women. I understood.
Anyway, lets talk about you. When people act on a certain impulse, it's usually an attempt to do or to attain something that they've always desired. This can be anything. Why do we get them? Mostly, that's just our way of revealing our desires and the urge is the need for these true desires to be expressed.
There is nothing wrong with you. The circumstances that goes on in your life are contributing factors to your mood, and your desires, and especially your urges at a sudden time. Basically, circumstances can enhance or decrease your urges at certain times. It all depends on the circumstances.
All you have to do is to really think about the meaning behind your urges. I know...How are you to think about something that compells you so much? The answer is that you just have to. Think about your actions and the consequences of those actions, both positive and negative. Also, consider your desires, which aren't bad. Find a HEALTHY way to chanel and express them. I can't tell you how to do that because that is for you to find out how in your very own way. I'm just letting you know that your feelings, thoughts, and what you covet are the root of these urges that you're having, which is definitely your problem. Acknowledging them and figuring them out is the only way to stop these urges, which aren't bad you know. Just pay attention to them. It's your body's way of telling you what you feel at that particular moment of your life.
Hope I was some help and have a nice day.
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