about

Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

okay, i am dead in the middle of the classic issue of being in love with your best friend.

lets call him Joe.

joe and i got really close really fast. my friends say "we just click". and i can see it too. when were together we're inseparable and when were apart we talk all the time. he tells me a lot of things he doesnt tell his other friends, even the ones who have been there forever.

but just recently, joe has become more "attractive", much more attractive..and now girls are alll over him..and guys, too. And ive liked him since the first time we hung out..before his grand transformation. and im afraid hes going to end up with someone who only talks to him NOW beacuse of his looks.

i dont know what to do.

i dont want to tell him because im terrified of rejection and i would MUCH rather have him as my best friend than not at all.

but id also like to know, beacuse sometimes it FEELS and LOOKS like he may like me, but other times..it doesnt.

and my feelings get stronger everytime we talk.

any ideas?
thanks a lot :]

15/f


Awww, that's cute.
There are some easy ways to find out if a guy likes you:
1) Blushing
2) Treats you different than any of his friends or other girls
3) His guy friends has some strange interests in you, it means that your crush has talked to them about you.

Flirt with him constantly. Start small though, but make it noticeable. Like, giggle at his every jokes, sweetly smile at him, make full eye contact, little hints that tells you you're interested in him. If he responds a little negatively... it means he doesn't like you. If he doesn't notice, or responds positively, start to go to the next level and start doing stuff like looking him head to toe (make sure he sees you!) and stuff. Be affectuonate!

XOXO
-Jenny C ♥

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