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Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

my mom and dad just died. i bearly had the strength to write this, but i am sooo sad, what should i do? I feel like i should be dead to. please, help.

Maybe you aren't the God-believer, but I suggest you "talk" to them. You don't have to close your eyes and go "amen" or anything, unless that'll help you feel better. You could just lie in your bed and whisper to them how much you miss them and love them and everything, or just say it all in your head. Tell them about your feelings in whatever way you want to. Try to make yourself feel closer to them. Wear your Mom's pearls or have Dad's ties.
Also, think about what your parents would feel if you killed yourself for them. They would have intense guilt. Your parents would want you to live long and work hard in the future. They want to see you be successful in life. How would you do that if you die??
Being depressed is normal, but you should try to work off all that grief you have. Smell sweet-scented candles, take nice warm buble baths, eat fudge, do anything calm and relaxing that'll lift your spirits up. I'm sure your parents want you to be happy. If you're depressed, they would be too. So make them smile by accepting the fact that they're gone without tears. It'll be hard. But it's possible. =)

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

~~~in reply to feedback~~~
You have some kind of attitude... cursing someone out for trying to help you. I suggest you take anger management.
Sorry if you were an Atheist, but you don't have to believe in God to talk to your parent spiritually, you know.
Even if you're such a female dog, I'm sorry your parents died. =) Okay? Hope you get over that.
With lots o' love,
Jenny C

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