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My mom wants me to visit a gynecologist...but I'm scared...(and I'm only 14!)..
Will my doctor tell my mom that I'm not a virgin??
...I dont want my mom to know yet... because I am too young for it...and she won't trust me!!
Does my mom have to be in the room with me??
And since she wants me to go does this mean she thinks I'm sexually active?(even though I am)
I'm scared...HELP!! thanks. (link)
it doesnt necessarily mean thats she thinks you are sexually active, although that could be the reason. its recommended for girls to start seeing a gynecologist for medical purposes once theyre about 13 anyways. an no, she does not have to be in there when you get checked. actually- i dont even think they let the parent stay in there, for privacy purposes, unless it is requested. and no, they will not tell yuor mom that you are sexually active, alot of the time, they wouldnt even be able to prove it if they wanted to. the only thing that would make them think you were sexually active would be that your hymen is broken, but that can happen from a number of things, not only from sex. althoguh they will ask you when you get in the office if you are sexually active, and the best thing to do is be honest with them,no matter how embarassing things might be, because they are there to help you, not make your life miserable. it will be nervewracking- but youll survive- i promise- all women do. good luck!


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Thanks!!! That helps A LOT!!!~Michelle~




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