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hey. yeah. i keep it real, and i'll try to help out annyway with annythin i can. im Em, and im a pretty smart chick. im a preddy good person, you know the type you would let babysit ur kids. dont take me for granted. i k how to rock it and keep it kool. w/o all the drugs and tequila. go ahead, ask me. ill anser. cuz u k im good lik that ;)

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So, for Christmas I had every intention of buying my boyfriend of five months an iPOD shuffle. [The new one, the one with the clip.] I pawned my alto saxophone, and got $150 for it. I gave my parents half of the money that I had gotten. So I had $75 left, and had an extra $35 to spend. I bought the shuffle for $80 and I had $30 left over. So, I wanted to get him the FEAR computer game. Which is $30. I have enough money for it, but my sister & mom are getting mad because they don't think I should be spending that much money on him.

He bought me a $70 pearl necklace and is buying me more, we made our price range $110. Everytime I ask them to take me to the store to buy it, we'll get into a huge argument about spending too much money, but I want to buy it for him. What can I say to defend myself?

Thanks mucho.

well, it is really sweet that you want to buy him so much stuf to make him happy...
but have you ever thought that maby HE cant afford to get you so much stuf back?
and it IS human nature to feel akward when someone gets you more expencive things than you get them.
you shouldnt have to give away your owne things to get him stuff... it is your money, but i can see why your fimly would be so concerned...
i can see that you want to buy the stuff for him, but arent you taking it a little extream? save some of that money for his birthday or something.
maby you should buy yourself a little something as an award for being able to give so much to other people
hope i helped
luv emi:)

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(Rating: 3) I said that "we made our price range $110."
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