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Q: well my very first love and i broke up about a month ago. We still talk. He already has a new girlfriend. Wich hurts me terribly. But for the whole time we werent together, i told myself i wanted to be with him, and i need him to be complete. But then i looked back and i realized things werent all that great with him, ( thats why we broke up it was a mutual thing).But when i first met him i think thats when i fell in love and i couldnt fall out of love. So now i told myself to be honest with myself, that i love him but dont really want to be with him. So im trying to suport his relationship. But i feel like im still in denile. Like i really do want to be with him but am just trying to make myself feel better bye saying i dont. Im so cunfused. Help?
It's hard to get over a love...Especially the first one. But you just need to give it time. Don't stop being his friend, and you should definitly support him in his new relationship. Eventually you will find someone else too, and you guys will all be friends and it will be like nothing ever happend with you and this guy, and you will be JUST FRIENDS. Just give it a little time...

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I have always wanted to have my own advice column because many of my friends and family have come to me for advice, (especially my younger sisters and thier friends), and I always have something to tell them. I thought it would be nice to give advice to other people that need it as well. One good quality about me when it comes to my advice is that I have expierience both in the teen world and the adult world. I am also a soon to be mother and have some good advice for mothers and soon to be mothers. I have been through a lot for my age and I am more than willing to help ANYONE who needs it, and I hope I can do so.

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