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.I'm nothing amazing.
.Don't want to be.
.My birth certificate reads Christina.
.A very select few can call me Chrissy.
.I struggle between extroversion and introversion.
.Laughing at un-funny things is my specialty.
.I eat the green m&m's beofre all the others.
.Don't know why.
.I worry too much.
.I think too much.
.But never enough.
.I'm the one you can call at 3am and say nothing.
.I'm the one who will call you at 3am and talk all night.
.My friends are Uh-mazing.
.You can't convince me otherwise.
.The television and I don't meet.
.But movies are amazing.
.I read.
.And enjoy it.
.Drums are amazing.
.I say amazing too much.
.I am a realist.
.And a day dreamer.
.I am a photographer.
.Good or bad, that's for you to decide.
.Words most defintly are not my strong point.
.Awkward silences seem to be attracted to me.
.I don't dress for you.
.I am pretty independant.
.But I love people.
.My favorite animal is the panda bear.
.Yeah. I'm a nerd.
.Downtown=love.
.You'll come to find I repeat myself.
.Often.
.I wear my seatbelt.
.I'm a confusing girl.
.And I'll be the first to admit that.
.I flip pennies over so they are heads up.
.It's a habbit.
.I don't change for anyone but myself.
.Calling people in the morning just to say hello.
.It's my thing.
.I don't believe in love.
.But I think i found a boi who's changing my mind.
.Autumn is my favorite.
.Wanna go puddle jumping?.
.I am forgetful.
.Sorry in advance.
.I read to escape reality.
.I write my own zine.
.Ask me about it.
.Mountain dew is my energy source.
.Singing=not my thing.
.I'm irresponisible.
.My middle name is Rochelle.
.And I like it.
.It's French.
.Maybe why I like french fries.
.I'm not Cinderella.
.Although my life story lines deal me otherwise.
.Fairy tales are not real.
.I'm a realist.
.Don't like myself.
.I will eventually.
.I laugh.
.I smile.
.I'm Christina.
.I am a mess.
Gender: Female
Occupation: Daycare Teacher
Age: 17
Member Since: December 16, 2006
Answers: 13
Last Update: December 22, 2006
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I've always felt like I should have been a girl when I was born, and I feel wrong as a guy. I'm 16 and in 10th grade. I just feel like I can't tell my parents or friends, cause they would freak, and I just feel like I'm stuck living with this feeling. Anybody have any advice on what I should do? (link)
Hey! You sent me a comment with your rating asking for advice on something else. Why don't you send me an email that way I don't have to post it for everyone to see: uneeknina@sbcglobal.net hope to hear from you soon!




If you don't feel comfortable telling anyone, then I would just leave it as is. But it sounds to me like you kind of want to get it out. Although I'm not sure if telling people will help you accomplish that. They may just ask you to see a therapist. Or they may be supportive. That, I cannot answer. But whatever decision you make, of course think through what you will say, and more importantly, WHY you are saying it. Tell whomever exactly how you feel, and why you are telling them: for them to get you help? for them to just listen? so they don't feel obligated one way or the other. Well, I hope I helped, and I hope it works out!

Christina


Rating: 5
I did want to get it out, so I talked to my mom today and she was pretty cool about it. She said I should try being a girl a few times and see if things feel right before we decide what to do next. So I'm gonna go to our school dance as a gurl next month, any advice?




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