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Well to make a long story as short as possible, I've been under stress lately. My mom doesn't talk to me, my sister moved out a while ago, and she just told me that she and her boyfriend are moving far away soon becasue he's joining the Army.
I love my boyfriend more than anything, we have a great relationship and I know he loves me. But Something has been wrong lately. Whenever I have to leave his house I get really depressed, and all these terrible thoughts come to my head, I can't stop them, like that he doesn't love me anymore, or that he's not attracted to me. I can't stop these thoughts, and I wish they would go away. I know they're ridiculous and I can't take it anymore. It's happened so amny times before, I'll be doing something, and somethign he'll say or so will automatically make me think that he doesn't love me anymore, or that he's annoyed with me. I'm so scraed to disagree with him or raise my voice or tell him not to do something because I'm terrified that he'll get mad, and it kills me to think that I could upset him. (I'm like that around most people, I hate thinking that I could have upset someone because I can't stand the idea that someone could be mad at me.) My boyfriend has this habit of pinching my butt and honking my boobs, and I really wish he wouldn't. I dunno how to tell him to stop though, I'd rather just be around him without all the pervy physical stuff.
I dunno whats wrong with me. Please give me advice, information, reassurance, anything!
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it seems like you feel like your boyfriend is the only person you have to turn to and you are really worried about losing him, therefore paranoid that everything he does means he doesn't like you. if you keep ignoring these thoughts, overtiem you will change and explode with feelings and such, so i REALLY suggest talking to him. tell him exactly how you feel and show him how important he is to you. the only reason he pinches you and stuff is because he thinks your hot and thinks you like it, so just tell him you don't, but make it up to him. be honest, and it'll work out
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Thank you, you don't know how much that helped.
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